Shared to a group I am moderating:
To the anonymous user who posted earlier about having thoughts of self-harm: even though you decided to remove your post, please know that we are still thinking of you. This message is for you and for anyone else going through a difficult time. We also want to use this as an opportunity to remind everyone how to support others who may be showing signs of distress.
Don’t wait: seek professional help early when these symptoms show up
Don’t wait: seek professional help early when these symptoms show up
If you (or someone you love) feels persistently numb, hopeless, detached, or suicidal, please treat that as a health issue—not a character flaw and not a “practice problem.” Early, professional help saves lives.
- Globally, more than 720,000 people die by suicide each year; among 15–29 year-olds it’s a leading cause of death. World Health Organization factsheet: https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/suicide
- In the U.S., suicide remains one of the leading causes of death; see the most recent data: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/facts/data.html
Why early help matters
- Delays are common—and harmful. Large cross-national research shows years-long delays between first symptoms and first treatment for mood and anxiety disorders; earlier contact is associated with better outcomes. Overview: https://europepmc.org/article/pmc/pmc3271938
- Brief, evidence-based care reduces risk. A simple Safety Planning Intervention given in emergency departments reduced subsequent suicidal behavior and increased outpatient engagement over 6 months:
JAMA Psychiatry (Stanley et al., 2018): https://jamanetwork.com/.../jamapsych.../fullarticle/2687370 (open PDF from Royal College summary: https://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/.../comparison-of-safety...) - Therapy works—including online. Meta-analyses show CBT/DBT and internet-based CBT lower suicidal ideation (and in many studies, attempts) vs usual care:
JAMA Network Open (systematic review/meta-analysis): https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2765056
(Another recent systematic review – abstract/landing: https://www.sciencedirect.com/org/science/article/pii/S1438887123004788) - Health-system guidance supports fast assessment. NICE (UK) recommends a timely psychosocial assessment after any self-harm to reduce future risk and connect people to care: https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng225
- Screening context (what primary care can do): The U.S. Preventive Services Task Force recommends depression screening for all adults and notes evidence is insufficient for universal suicide-risk screening itself—so clinicians screen for depression, then assess suicide risk when indicated:
USPSTF recommendation (JAMA summary): https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/2806144
Task Force page: https://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/uspstf/draft-recommendation/screening-depression-suicide-risk-adults
“Isn’t it dangerous to ask about suicide?” (No.)
Evidence shows that asking about suicide does not plant the idea or increase risk; in some contexts it’s associated with small benefits (more disclosure, reduced distress/ideation).
- Psychological Medicine (review): https://www.cambridge.org/.../FCAEE9E5BC840D76CF10AEBECD9...
- British Journal of Psychiatry (randomized trial of screening): https://www.cambridge.org/.../C13EF2D1B4FC19F0867838D5D41...
- National Elf (plain-language summary of meta-analysis): https://www.nationalelfservice.net/.../asking-about.../
Warning signs that mean act now
Recognized red flags from national agencies include: talking about wanting to die; feeling like a burden; unbearable pain; severe agitation/rage; reckless behavior; heavy substance use; withdrawing; giving away possessions; saying goodbye; or a sudden calm after turmoil.
- NIMH “Warning Signs of Suicide”: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/warning-signs-of-suicide
- SAMHSA warning-signs card (PDF): https://pueblo.gpo.gov/.../pdfs/SAMHSA988/PEP24-988-015P.pdf
What “getting help” actually looks like
- Primary-care / GP visit: brief screening and referral. (USPSTF depression screening recommendation above — helps catch issues early.)
- Licensed mental-health care: psychologist, psychiatrist, clinical social worker. Evidence-based options include CBT, DBT, medication when appropriate, safety planning, and follow-up.
- Health-system playbook: WHO LIVE LIFE prevention package (for clinicians, systems, communities): https://www.who.int/initiatives/live-life
If you’re on a spiritual path: practice can support recovery, but when major depression or suicidality is present, pair practice with clinical care and social support (WHO guidance above).
What to do today
- If you’re in immediate danger: call your local emergency number.
- Tell a professional plainly: “I’m having thoughts of harming myself.” Directness gets you the right level of care faster (NICE guidance: https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng225).
- Use 24/7 crisis support (free, confidential):
- United States & Canada: 988 call/text/chat — official site: https://988lifeline.org/ (what to expect: https://988lifeline.org/get-help/)
- United Kingdom & Ireland: Samaritans 116 123 — https://www.samaritans.org/ (how to contact: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/)
- Australia: Lifeline 13 11 14 — https://www.lifeline.org.au/ (info page also via Lifeline International: https://lifeline-international.com/member/australia/)
- New Zealand: Call/Text 1737 — quick info: https://mentalhealth.org.nz/resources/download/244/yyob5wbpz4md3kui or directory: https://findahelpline.com/countries/nz
- Anywhere else: Find A Helpline (vetted, global directory): https://lifeline-intl.findahelpline.com/
- Make a simple safety plan (warning signs, coping steps, people to call, removing means) with a clinician or trusted supporter—this is part of the evidence base:
JAMA Psychiatry study showing benefit of Safety Planning + follow-up: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/2687370 - Follow up—first weeks matter. Keep appointments; if one option isn’t a fit, try another (different therapist, modality, or digital program). (See evidence on early response predicting better outcomes: https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/10.1176/appi.focus.20170011)
A note to our community
This group discusses awakening; we are not a crisis service. When acute risk shows up in a post or comment, we’ll lock discussion and help the poster reach professional care. That keeps everyone safer—and follows public-health guidance.
- WHO overview of suicide prevention: https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/suicide
If this describes you today: you’re not broken, and you’re not alone. Reach out now.